Let me tell you about the club: there’s a club; the club has members; others are excluded from the club. The members of the club love it, needless to say — they love it because the club sets them apart from the rest. Among the non-members there are those who love the club anyway, and those who hate it. Those non-members who love the club do so because they understand their membership application will be processed favourably sooner or later — their love is genuine and they’ll grow up to be faithful albeit ordinary members of the club.
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